That issue is something that I have thought about but never heard or seen it discussed until now. You could well be right in what you say.newgroundrodney wrote:There is also the aspect of there "not being one openly gay footballer".....
Now, at the risk of sounding homophobic myself, I wonder to what extent if any, a player's willingness to "come out" is dictated by the fact that he will have shared changing rooms, in various states of undress, with the gender to which he is sexually attracted. Obviously, it is only natural that there be some reticence on his part to make this very private aspect of his life known.
The changing room issue is a major one, I believe.
If we get a female assistant referee, does she share a changing room with her male counterparts?...does she walk around in the altogether in front of those male colleagues? Now if she does, then fair enough, but I would suggest that the reason there aren't more openly gay players, is fear of the reaction to the fact that they've shared a changing room, however irrational that fear may be.
Would any of us be comfortable walking around naked, in a dressing full of the gender to which we are attracted?
This to me, is the real root of the problem, one of what is appropriate or inappropriate. This I believe is what stops them coming out.
I have often wondered why players don’t come out as gay, no problem at all with that. I don’t think it is fear of public ridicule but a possible fear of the ‘changing room mentality’ including their own feelings as well as that of their teammates.