Stan A. Einstein wrote:
Two things, if as you say I 'don't realize' why do you say 'how vile'? To accuse a person who has made an innocent mistake of being vile is plainly ridiculous. However I know that my friends who happen to be gay don't find that joke offensive, but to reenforce if any person was genuinely offended then I can assure them it was not meant in any pejorative way.
Moving on, I am always offended by homophobic abuse. I am shocked that you are not.
i didn't say that you didn't realise, i said maybe
thanks for clearing up that it was deliberate
when you make homophobic jokes in front of your gay friends they will laugh behind your back and pity you, your jokes are still homophobic and abusive
but this wasn't a joke, it was viscous. look at what your wrote -
Stan A. Einstein wrote:
" Seriously if you pm me with your address I will send you a life size colour photograph. No really, I've never been a gay icon before. "
you started with "Seriously" - i took it seriously as it was intended
you continued with "No really," - yes you really meant it
as I said - vile